The principle is to say No to anything that would divert you from your goals and dreams. This power comes by skill, training, and effort, and it is invaluable in your endeavours. The idea of saving No may seem negative, but if you say No to the right things, it has a very positive outcome. It’s easy to blame circumstances and the bad hand you were dealt and say, ‘It’s not my fault’. But it’s thousands of times more rewarding to say No to those things that stand in your way and play your hand to win.
It’s Not My Fault, DR HENRY CLOUD and DR JOHN TOWNSEND